What is it that keeps most women from shunning their inhibitions in bed? What keeps holding them back every time they want to initiate love-making? Yes! You guessed it right! Women often seem to be clueless about what men crave for in bed. What are the moves that turn a man on and what doesn't?

So, we got men talking about their wildest fantasies, their desires and what turns them on the most and here's what they had to spill...

The bold and the beautiful

Are you one of those shy gals when it comes to making the first move in bed? Do you expect your man to always take the lead and get you in the mood for sex? Well, may be it's time to step out of your stilettos and step into his shoes. Try doing all the things you want him to do to you between the sheets. Get out of the closet, initiate a prolonged foreplay session and take charge of him, for most men confess that women who simply lay back expecting the man to get going is a complete turn off.

Akash Chauhan (name changed on request), an IT professional, who works in South Africa, says, "I like women who take the lead. The bolder, the better. It makes the entire act even more enjoyable when the woman dominates. Women who are coy, don't speak up and just lay back waiting to have all the fun are a huge turn off for me. I think women must understand that men like to be pampered too."

Get it right: Manmeet Bhalla, a marriage and relationship counselor suggests, "It's only fair that men should expect women to assume charge in love-making. You can't always be demanding without putting in enough effort. Sex is an expression of love and if you don't express your needs and desires openly, it may lead your partner to believe that you are losing interest in him. Sex can only be enjoyed to the hilt if it's a two-way street."

Dirty dancing
It's not just dirty talking that turns on men, but dirty dancing too. So, once the lights are dim, put on some sexy numbers and get set to showcase some wild and erotic moves. It doesn't matter how good you are at it, as long as those sexy moves are enough to tease his senses and turn him on. So, get your feet tapping the next time you want to turn him on. Don your sexy lingerie and smell good to keep him from batting an eyelid.

Rohan Malviya (name changed on request), an advertising professional agrees, "I think dancing is a great turn on. I just love it when my girl dances on sexy numbers on the bed, or during a shower. The way she moves her fingers between my hair turns me on. Getting naughty adds more fun to love-making. Some good music and just me and her - gets me in the mood for action."

Get it right: Nanda Kundu, dance trainer and founder of Kiran's Dance in Rhythm, agrees, "Dancing is undoubtedly erotic. A lot of couples come to us to spark up their romance via dance. Dance helps them find a new way of bonding with each other. Whether it is salsa, cha cha cha, jive, swing jitterbug or rumba, it helps couples connect with each other at a sensual level."