Is it true that as years pass, the love in a relationship fades? Some say yes while some no...Well, to be frank, bonding needs to become strong as per general principle but why is that people are moving far away from each other emotionally as each day passes, this is an interesting question and also an obvious one. Women who say no to the above question always have a set of answers to give in order to back their answer. They say that their partners are not the way they used to be earlier. No movies, no gifts and no candle light dinners and the list of answers go on. So, is it that these women who complain of no gifts and no movies enter relationship just because of these obvious reasons. You might not know the stress he's developing for shutting between too many things in earning bread for you. Did you ever ask why he has been restless for past few days?

Love is not about give and take, yes, it's agreed that give and take make things beautiful but love is something beyond that. It's all about understanding your partner better. The same thing applies to men. It would prove you are only opportunist when you complain that she's not taking proper care of things at home and finds most of her time in bed taking rest.  You never know, she might have developed some serious ailment and that could be the reason behind her lethargy.  Did you ever try asking her, if everything was okay about her health?

So friends kindly don't jump to conclusions. People will never change. It's just that certain factors make them behave that way. Breaking a relation just because he/she was not the way he/she used to be earlier will not be having any merit.

(AW Phani)