No relationship works for a long time, without stepping down and compromising at least sometime during the journey of you with your partner.

This 'compromise' takes a major turn and proves to be mandatory, in the relationships where your 'heart' rules over your mind... but, there should be a balance in relationship as well… you have to compromise on certain aspects, at any stage of your relationship, but you should also know, in what cases you need to say 'no' to 'compromising' in your relationships;

You are a individual first only then have entered in the bliss of any relationship... of course, there is nothing great than a perfect 'relationship' with your partner, but definitely not at the cost of your identity. When there is question of you compromising on every thought of yours, act, interests, life style, habits, likes and dislikes, to survive your relationship, it is better for you and your partner to just end the relationship, before things get worst and there would be no worth for all your 'compromise'.

You want to work? Want to eat what you like? Just spend those 100 bugs on buying a lip stick? You want to spend some amount from your own earnings? Are you compromising even on these? Then time to think about your relationship... if your partner really loves you, he would care for the smallest happiness of yours and let you enjoy the bliss of this. if he/she is restricting even on these and wanting you to accept whatever your partner's view, to be right, then 'sorry', even you have brains to think what is good or bad to you...

Domestic violence need not be physical all the time... abusing with words, harassing mentally, forcing you to do only what your partner or your partner's parents and family would wish for, forcing you to have or not have a baby as per their interest, checking and restricting every move and act of yours... compromising in all these does not mean you are working on your relationship... it is you are leaving your individuality and identity in the name of your relationship to work... if you want to live up in your eyes at least, never do this...

Relationship is to keep you happy... not to be a question to your happiness...