Top reasons why people ghost you:- We all face a situation where we get ghosted at a point of time in our life. It will be by a friend or by someone who is quite close and loving. One will get hurt for the act and you may not have a chance to convey your side of the story. You also may not have a chance to discuss about what went wrong. Nedra Glover Tawwab, NYT Bestselling Author, Relationship & Boundaries Expert says that Ghosting is ending a relationship without any explanation. It also makes one abrupt and the other will try hard to repair their relationship. At this time, the conversations are hard and harsh.
All the people who are not ready to confront or fear adverse reaction. Ghosting mostly happens in short-term relationships as the commitment would be low. Some of them may be bored because of you and others may love to disappear. There are cases in which the people of both sides suffer or get hurt. The ghoster will feel shame and the other person wants an explanation or closure. Some of the explanations of the ghoster are below as per the Instagram post of Tawwab:
This relationship is not working for me
I don't like you as much as you like me
You're hard to talk to, and I can't be honest
I'm tired of you not changing after being clear about my needs
I'm not ready for a relationship
You make me feel uncomfortable
It's me, not you
I can't hold space for you
I have said no, and you won't listen