You are smart, intelligent, independent, sensible, loving and caring, responsible, a perfect example of today’s Woman, whom every guy want to get cozy. Even then, not many people you like are interested to look you, take an initiative to come up to you and keen interest in speaking to you. Why so? Before indulging in a deep thinking, just be practical, look and judge yourself about what is that ‘factor’ that is missing in you and making you staying away from the guy you think is apt for you? In most of the cases, the following are the important factors that can be considered as a hurdles for the guy of your dreams not approaching you and if sorted out, you never know, the guy you desire to be with might just not be a ‘desire’ but ‘reality’ in your life;

You might be ‘perfect’, but at times it is important for the World to know about ‘the real ‘you’. You need not be ‘cheap’, but can always be ‘outstanding’ amongst the others. Just let that ‘charm’ in you excels and your liveliness may charm others as well. you can be simple, the way you are but still attract people around you but just putting on full of life to you character. It is not just the clothes, way of dressing and beautiful skin or face features or well-toned body that would attract people. Just open your eyes and look around. You would find ‘n’ number of couple amongst those either the Guy or the Girl are not so good looking when compared to their partner, but do possess the ‘X’ factor in them. Now, the challenge you have is how do you find out that ‘special’ quality in you and let the charm spell.

For what are you waiting? Life is too short to wait too much dear… all the time, guys taking the first step to come forward and introducing themselves to girls, ab who zamaanatohgayaa. You can always take an initiative to just go up to the Guy in whom you are interested and make a effort to speak first. Now, this can probably turn into some more talks further, that would for sure help you to know more about him, his interests, life style, if he is in a committed relationship or not, and is he interested in you or not. At least in today’s generation, a girl taking a first step and speaking to the opposite sex for the first time is not considered ‘cheap’. Chaloo, maanbhiliyaathat he has formed that negative impression on you. Then forget him to be a ‘jerk’ and nothing more.

No matter in which domain you are and no matter each day is routine to you, unless and until there is something special with your life or in the work place, just remember you need to for sure dress and make your appearance look presentable  every day. This not only reflects positive to your personality but gives that impact on your mind as well. Only when you pamper yourself, love the real ‘You’, you would be confident enough to present yourself in front of the rest of the World as well.

So, just don’t wait for an opportunity… just like you have grabbed the opportunities and excelled in Studies, Job and life, just prove your worth in this important phase of your live as well.

SunayanaVinay Kumar