How to be on the same page with your partner sexually?January 03, 2014 18:09
Are you and your partner on the same page when it comes to love-making? No? Never mind, we bring you some best expert tips to ax the sexual disconnection and boost intimacy like never before. Lovemaking is like a symphony created by two people, so if one note goes wrong, things can go out of tune. Here are a few ways you can re-tune your sex life.
Mismatch 1: Sex drive
There can be times when a women can take longer to be aroused. Instead of fretting or losing steam, look for ways to accelerate her drive. Take charge and stimulate her by saying 'you're all sweaty, you must be turned on'. This can actually drive her to believe your words and get her ready for action. All it will take is some gentle persuasion and effort.
Mismatch 2: Dirty talk
If your partner likes dirty talk and you don't, the easiest way to shut them up would be to plant a kiss on their lips. But this may not always serve the purpose. In that case, relationship counsellor Seema Hingoranny has a smarter idea, "If you cannot keep up with the talking, steer the conversation in a different direction by telling him exactly what you want him to do." This way he still gets a share of the dirty talk while you get to experience pleasure on your terms.
Mismatch 3: Orgasm
There can be time when you are just starting to get into the groove and he climaxes. Says Sonar, "The coitus interruptus method is a sure-shot and safe way of prolonging intercourse." If you are far away from orgasm but your man close to it, ask him to pull out just when he feels he is about to ejaculate. Pause for a moment and start afresh. This will take the mind off the heat without the momentum.
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