There's talking to your man about everyday things; but then there's the real intimate discussions that leave him thinking you are absolutely amazing. You know....those moments of discussion that he will never forget, because they brought him closer to you. If you truly want to get through to your man, and want him to stay endlessly interested in you, then you should discuss these 4 things with him:

Talk About His Personal Goals
These are goals which are outside of a relationship. These are the things that he's always wanted to do on his own, and they are EXTREMELY important to men. Men feel the need to be able to problem solve and accomplish on their own, so they will always have goals or dreams which they think about accomplishing on their own. Find out what these are, and get to know what he wants for himself and what he aspires to do.

Supporting him in this, is the best way to talk to him, because it shows him that you care and are willing to help him become happy, even if it doesn't directly involve you.

Discuss His Insecurities
Men aren't too open about it, and maybe sometimes he doesn't even know what his insecurities are. BUT, you know them, because you get the outside look on things always. Discussing these can be a huge eye opener for men, if you discuss them on a casual and non-judgmental basis.

It can also help him get over them or it can help him realize that you really don't think about him in certain ways, because some of the insecurities might be misconceptions about you, or about your opinions on him etc....

Ask Him What He Wants From You
More often than not, men will never outwardly ask a woman for something he truly wants. He will probably keep the desires hidden, because he may not want to burden her, or he may simply feel that it's not too important at the moment because he concentrates on you more than himself.

But, by asking a man what he wants from you, it shows him that you want to fulfill his needs and that you also care about him.

Talk About His Fantasies
You're dating, and you may get physically intimate, but the ultimate connect and turn on to a man, is on the emotional level. The best way to get to this level quickly is to ask him what his fantasies are. Have him communicate what kind of intimacy he dreams of, and what sorts of things he's always wanted to try or do. This question will easily get him aroused and will blow his mind that you want to know him that deeply.