Remember when you both first met? It was a classic case of 'can't keep our hands off each other'. Somewhere along the line, responsibilities caught up with you and now there is simply no time for intimacy. Wait! Is that the real reason? Maybe you're finding excuses to avoid it because you better half stopped making you feel young.
Ok, you want the silly fun back and here's how you do it. The oldest tip in the book is 'communication is key.' Saying it again is necessary for couples to take it seriously. Well, that is also seemingly a mountain to cross. Gather up the courage to express what you want to your spouse.
Firstly, begin by talking about intimacy to set the mood. As ideas and fantasies come out of the closet, a slow but sure change in the air is bound to happen. Secondly, ask the person what they fantasize about. It gives a useful peek into their expectations. Later, you have the chance to explain your expectations.
As a couple, don't just co-exist but have a little spontaneous fun. There may be a hundred things interrupting the moment, but not planning it will bring the early days back. To make that happen simple hints do not work on the partner. At this point, one needs to be open and honest. It surprisingly works for the couple if they can lay their hesitations aside.
(AW:Sruthi)
